A magical, mystical, supernatural thing happens when a woman becomes a mother. A bond is woven with the very threads of the cosmos to form an indestructible link between three entities: the mother, her child, and…the toilet seat.
Moms, you know what I’m talking about. You need to use the bathroom, and you see that your lovely progeny are contentedly watching Word Girl, or eating cheese sticks, or giving the cat a new hairdo. You realize, “This is my chance!”
Off you sneak to the throne room, nearly giddy with excitement at the chance to visit the loo in peace. But no matter how content the children looked when you left, as soon as your tush hits that seat, BAM! It’s like the Bat Signal has roared across the night sky of their inmost being. They feel an almost-panicked tug from the cosmic link and all they can think is, Alert! Alert! I NEED MOM RIGHT NOW.
This happens even if they seemed perfectly happy a few moments ago.
This happens even if the children are sitting right next to their father, who is perfectly capable of helping them.
This happens even if the children are well past their preschool years (well past) and are perfectly capable of helping themselves.
Those things do not matter.
The link is so strong and so irresistible that they must immediately find you to ask life-or-death questions through the closed and locked door such as:
“Mom? Where is my green crayon?”
“Mom? Can I have a drink of water?”
“Mom? Why isn’t Madagascar on this map?”
(Not joking. That last one was an actual question asked of me recently while I was trying to pretend I could tinkle in absolute privacy. Obviously, that kind of urgent question CANNOT WAIT.)
And of course, this bond only applies to the derrieres of mothers. Daddy can get through six BuzzFeed lists and 38 levels of Candy Crush uninterrupted while on the john, but no such luck for Mommy. She is doomed to have conversations through the door, even if her end of the conversation is simply repeating, “I’m in the bathroom! Wait until I come out!”
Which, of course, does not work because this mystical bond apparently has blood-oath level rules such as
- Drop everything. You must find her NOW.
- You must get her to answer your question before she flushes. This is imperative for the well-being of the entire galaxy.
- If possible, slide your fingers and/or notes under the door in case she forgets you are there, even though you have been talking to her the entire time.
I know I’m not the only one this happens to because the phenomenon has inspired numerous memes like these:
Even celebrity moms like Carrie Underwood cannot escape.
And now you know why. Your children are bound by an unbreakable tie to you and your bathroom habits. They just cannot help it. They must find you. And they will. The only hope is that the bond dissolves by the time they leave for college.
Then again, who knows? Maybe it lasts much longer. The next time you get an overwhelming urge to call or text your mom with a question, you might discover she just happened to have stepped into the powder room at that exact same moment.
Happy Mother’s Day to all you moms! May you have at least one solo trip to the bathroom today.
This post is dedicated to my amazing mom. Love you! Sorry for all the times we kids interrupted your quality time.
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May 8, 2016 at 11:15 am
This is great! Thanks for the laughs! 😀
May 8, 2016 at 12:00 pm
Glad you enjoyed it!
May 9, 2016 at 12:49 am
Ha! Yes! What doesn’t help my situation is my bathroom door is being held closed by a hair tie. So, privacy, what is that?
May 9, 2016 at 8:45 am
A hair tie is definitely not going to hold them back. 😉